If I said to you, "I have the secret that will help you raise children who are at peace inside, are always growing personally, are courageous, have a strong character, stay out of trouble, and steer clear of evil, " would you want to know that secret? If this secret also gave your children a sense of direction and purpose and all that they need and then some - and would make them honored and thought highly of by their friends and peers, would you want to know it?
The secret is simple: Pray for them & Teach them to Pray.