Thursday, September 14, 2023

Begin by explaining why keeping their room clean and organized is important.


Teaching kids how to clean their rooms, be organized and neat can be a valuable life skill. Here's a step-by-step guide on how to prepare them engagingly and effectively:

Set Clear Expectations: Begin by explaining why keeping their room clean and organized is important. Mention benefits like finding things easily, creating a pleasant space, and being responsible.

Use simple language that they can understand and relate to.

Make It a Fun Activity: Turn cleaning into a game or a challenge. For example, see who can pick up the most toys the fastest.

Play their favorite music while cleaning to make it enjoyable.

Break It Down: Show them how to break the cleaning process into small, manageable tasks. For example, they could first pick up toys, then make the bed, and so on.

Provide a checklist with pictures or simple words to help them remember the steps.

Lead by Example: Children often mimic what they see. Clean your own space alongside them to demonstrate the process and make it a family activity.

Provide the Right Tools: Ensure they have age-appropriate cleaning supplies, such as a small broom, dustpan, cloth, and a designated place to put their toys and belongings.

Teach them how to use these tools safely.

Give Specific Instructions: Explain how to tidy up different areas of their room. For instance, show them how to make their bed neatly and how to arrange toys on shelves.

Sort and Declutter: Teach them to sort toys and items into categories (e.g., dolls, cars, books). Explain the concept of keeping what they use and donating or storing what they don't.

Use Timers: Set a timer for short cleaning sessions. Encourage them to race against the clock to complete tasks. This can make cleaning feel less overwhelming.

Offer Rewards and Praise: Provide positive reinforcement for a job well done. You can use a sticker chart, small rewards, or simply praise and hugs.

Highlight how proud you are of their efforts.

Create a Routine: Establish a daily or weekly cleaning routine. Consistency is key to forming good habits.

Make sure they understand that cleaning up is part of their daily responsibilities.

Organizational Tips: Teach them about the importance of having a designated place for each item. Use clear labels or pictures to help them remember where things belong. 

Encourage them to put items back after using them.

Lead to Independence: As they become more skilled, gradually let them take more responsibility for their room. This empowers them and fosters independence.

Be Patient: Understand that children may not achieve perfection immediately. Be patient and offer guidance without frustration.

Encourage them to learn from their mistakes.

Regular Check-Ins: Schedule regular room inspections together. This keeps them accountable and helps maintain cleanliness and organization.

Celebrate Achievements: Celebrate milestones and progress, whether it's a clean room, a well-organized closet, or mastering a new cleaning skill.

Remember that teaching kids about cleaning and organization is an ongoing process. Be consistent, patient, and supportive, and gradually they will develop valuable skills for keeping their rooms and spaces neat and organized.


Read More: 

1.) The Effect of A Dirty Bedroom.

https://www.thecleanbedroom.com/mattress-blog/the-effects-of-a-dirty-bedroom

2.) 9  New Rules for Decluttering a kid's room -and keeping it that way.

https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/home/organizing/tips/a36448/rules-for-decluttering-a-kids-room/


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Monday, September 11, 2023

Can my "non-reading" child ever become an avid reader?


Yes, a non-reading child can definitely become an avid reader with the right strategies, patience, and encouragement. Cultivating a love for reading in a non-reading child might take time, but it is entirely possible. Here are some steps to help guide a non-reading child toward becoming an avid reader:
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Discover Interests: Find out what topics or genres interest the child. When they read about things they are curious or passionate about, they are more likely to engage with the material.

Start with Engaging Content: Begin with books that are visually appealing and have captivating stories. Picture books, graphic novels, and books with lots of illustrations can be great choices.

Use Phonics and Phonemic Awareness: If the child is learning to read, focus on building their phonics and phonemic awareness skills. Use games and activities that help them recognize sounds and associate them with letters.

Read Aloud: Read aloud to the child regularly. This helps them become familiar with language patterns, vocabulary, and the overall enjoyment of storytelling.

Encourage Participation: As they become more comfortable, encourage them to read aloud to you or take turns reading together. This can help build confidence.

Set a Reading Routine: Establish a consistent time for reading each day. This routine can help make reading a habit and a natural part of their day.

Provide a Variety of Materials: Offer a diverse selection of books, magazines, comics, and other reading materials. Variety can keep their interest piqued.

Celebrate Progress: Celebrate their reading milestones, even if they are small. Positive reinforcement can help build their confidence and enthusiasm.

Create a Reading Space: Set up a cozy and inviting reading area where they can feel comfortable and relaxed while reading.

Visit the Library: Regular visits to the library can expose them to a wide range of books and encourage a sense of exploration.

Lead by Example: Let the child see you reading regularly. Children often imitate the behavior of adults.

Make Connections: Relate the stories to their life experiences or interests. Discuss how characters' actions and decisions might relate to situations they encounter.

Provide Freedom of Choice: Let them choose the books they want to read. Their autonomy in selecting reading material can boost their motivation.

Set Reading Challenges: Introduce reading challenges or goals that offer a sense of accomplishment when completed.

Foster a Positive Attitude: Create a positive atmosphere around reading. Avoid pressure or negativity, and let them know that reading is a fun and rewarding activity.

Remember, the goal is not just to make them read, but to nurture a genuine interest and curiosity for reading. Tailor your approach to their preferences, and be patient as they develop their skills and enthusiasm. Every child's journey is unique, so adjust your strategy as needed and celebrate their progress along the way.

Tuesday, August 29, 2023

How Can I Foster A Reading Habit in My Child?

 


           Are you a parent struggling with your child's reading habits? Are you worried your child is not reading enough?

 Please don't be stressed up! I will be providing you with simple strategies that will help boost your child's desire to read. 

It is possible for a non-reader to become an avid reader!

                      Remain Blessed.

        With God All Things are Possible.

 Best regards to your family.

                              CEN

10 reasons why active studying is important for children

Studying actively offers numerous benefits for children's learning and cognitive development. Here are 10 reasons why active studying is important for children:

Enhanced Understanding: Active studying encourages children to engage with the material deeply, leading to a better understanding of concepts and topics.

Improved Retention: Active learning techniques such as self-quizzing and summarization help children retain information for longer periods.

Critical Thinking Skills: Active studying prompts children to analyze, evaluate, and synthesize information, fostering the development of critical thinking skills.

Better Problem-Solving Abilities: Through active engagement, children learn to apply concepts to real-world scenarios, improving their problem-solving abilities.

Long-Term Learning: Active study methods help children transfer knowledge from short-term to long-term memory, facilitating continuous learning over time.

Increased Motivation: The interactive nature of active studying can make learning more enjoyable and motivate children to stay engaged with their studies.

Confidence Building: As children actively practice and apply what they've learned, their confidence in their academic abilities grows.

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Effective Time Management: Active study techniques, such as the Pomodoro Technique, teach children to manage their time efficiently and maintain focus during study sessions.

Preparation for Real-Life Situations: Active studying mirrors the skills needed for lifelong learning and success, preparing children for challenges beyond the classroom.

Ownership of Learning: Active studying empowers children to take responsibility for their learning process, as they actively shape their understanding and knowledge.

Overall, active studying equips children with the tools to become independent learners, critical thinkers, and effective problem solvers, setting them up for success not only in academics but also in their personal and professional lives.

Saturday, August 26, 2023

A Curdle Reading Time with Einstein

 Here's what I'm Reading Aloud to my One year Old Son, Einstein. 


What are you reading for your kids this weekend? Tell us in the comment section. 

Enjoy your weekend 
Best regards to the family. 
CEN
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Wednesday, August 23, 2023

10 Ways To Help Your Child Develop Active Study Habits

Teaching your child to study actively is essential for their academic success and lifelong learning skills. Active studying involves engaging with the material actively, and using strategies that enhance understanding, retention, and critical thinking. Here are 10 ways to help your child develop active study habits:

Set Clear Goals: Help your child define specific goals for their study sessions. This could include completing a certain amount of reading, understanding specific concepts, or practicing a certain number of problems. Clear goals provide direction and purpose to their study sessions.

Use the Pomodoro Technique: Break study time into intervals, typically 25 minutes of focused study followed by a 5-minute break. After completing four cycles, take a longer break. This technique helps maintain focus and prevents burnout.

Organize and Summarize Notes: Teach your child to take organized notes during lectures or reading. Encourage them to summarize main points, concepts, and key details. This process of summarization aids comprehension and retention.

Practice Retrieval: Active learning involves regularly recalling information from memory. Encourage your child to quiz themselves or engage in practice tests to reinforce what they've learned. This boosts long-term retention.

Teach Mind Mapping: Introduce mind mapping as a visual tool to organize complex concepts. Mind maps help connect related ideas and visualize the hierarchy of information, aiding in better understanding.

Explain Concepts Out Loud: Encourage your child to explain concepts in their own words as if they were teaching someone else. This technique reinforces understanding and identifies areas that need further clarification.

Use Active Study Techniques: Teach techniques like flashcards, summarizing paragraphs in a few sentences, creating concept maps, and teaching a topic to someone else. These methods actively engage the brain and enhance learning.

Variety in Study Locations: Change study environments occasionally to prevent monotony. Different environments can stimulate the brain and help with information retention.

Incorporate Movement: Physical activity can improve cognitive function. Encourage short breaks where your child stretches, does light exercise, or takes a short walk to refresh their mind before returning to their studies.

Encourage Questioning: Teach your child to ask questions about the material they're studying. Encourage critical thinking by exploring why things work the way they do and how concepts relate to real-world situations.

Remember, each child is unique, so it's important to tailor these techniques to their learning style and preferences. Gradually introduce these methods and provide guidance until your child becomes comfortable with active study habits.


                                         


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Saturday, August 5, 2023

Teaching Your Child To Study Actively.

Is your child studying actively?

"Active" studying means intellectually engaging the information that's passing before your eyes; staying alert to the material, asking yourself questions about it, thinking about it as you go along.
        I will be sharing 10 scientific proven strategies that will help your children engage actively in their studies.
         Stay tuned!
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Saturday, July 29, 2023

"Mommy, Daddy, and God love me. I'm special. "

Dear Parents,
    We are responsible to feed and nourish our children Spiritually. 
     When you consistently pray for your children, they learn what prayer is and that God is interested in them. You can begin this even before your children know what talking is.
Simply thank God for them out loud, pray that He gives them a good sleep, and thank Him for putting them in your life. 
       In doing this you are giving them the basics of the Christian faith - God is real, He made them and loves them, He takes care of them, and prayer is talking to God.
       It's never too late to establish a solid foundation of faith in our children.
         You can start Today!
          
God bless you.         
Christina♡
         

           

Tuesday, July 25, 2023

Renew Your Mind

 



Your whole outlook will change as you grow in the knowledge of God and His promises. This is called "renewing your mind"

     Read: [Romans 12:1-2]

Saturday, June 24, 2023

Once upon a time. . .


Once upon a time, there lived a lady named Sarah. Sarah was a kind-hearted and gentle soul, but she often felt a sense of emptiness and purposelessness in her life. She had everything she needed materially, yet she yearned for something more profound—a sense of inner peace and fulfillment.

One sunny Sunday morning, Sarah decided to visit the local church. She had heard stories of the transformative power of faith and wanted to explore the possibility of finding solace in something greater than herself. As she stepped into the church, she was greeted by warm smiles and a serene atmosphere that instantly made her feel welcome.

During the service, Sarah listened intently to the pastor's words, which spoke of love, forgiveness, and the redeeming power of Jesus Christ. As the congregation sang hymns of praise, Sarah felt a deep stirring in her heart. Tears welled up in her eyes as she realized that her soul had found what it had been searching for.

After the service, Sarah approached the pastor, Reverend Thomas, to discuss her newfound longing for a connection with Jesus. Reverend Thomas listened attentively, offering guidance and encouragement. He spoke of the unconditional love and grace that Jesus extends to all who seek Him, emphasizing that accepting Jesus into her life would bring about a remarkable transformation.

Sarah took Reverend Thomas's words to heart and began to delve into the teachings of Jesus. She immersed herself in reading the Bible, attending church services, and engaging in meaningful conversations with fellow believers. With each passing day, Sarah's faith grew stronger, and the emptiness that had once plagued her soul began to dissipate.

As Sarah embraced Jesus Christ in her life, her actions reflected her newfound spiritual awakening. She became more compassionate towards others, lending a helping hand to those in need. She started volunteering at a local shelter, devoting her time to serve the less fortunate and sharing the message of hope and love.

Sarah's family and friends noticed a remarkable change in her. Her joyful spirit and unwavering faith inspired them, prompting some to embark on their own spiritual journeys. Sarah's husband, David, witnessed the profound impact of Jesus in her life and was moved by her transformed heart. He, too, began exploring his own beliefs, seeking a personal relationship with God.

Sarah's faith continued to guide her every step, leading her to make a difference in the lives of those around her. She founded a support group for struggling individuals, providing them with a safe space to share their burdens and find solace in the comforting presence of Jesus. Through her kindness and unwavering faith, Sarah became a beacon of hope and an instrument of God's love within her community.

Years passed, and Sarah's devotion to Jesus Christ remained steadfast. Her life had become a testament to the transformative power of faith and the unconditional love of God. People from all walks of life sought her counsel, seeking the same profound connection she had discovered.

Sarah's journey had come full circle. From a place of emptiness and searching, she had found her purpose and meaning in Jesus Christ. Through her own transformation, she had touched the lives of countless individuals, helping them find their own path to salvation and inner peace.

And so, the story of Sarah stands as a powerful reminder that even in the darkest moments, the light of Jesus can shine through, bringing hope, love, and redemption to those who open their hearts to Him.

   


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Tuesday, June 20, 2023

When Your Child Lacks Empathy, what should you do?

Teaching children empathy through a scriptural lens can help them develop a compassionate and loving heart, mirroring the teachings and example of Jesus Christ. Here are some steps to teach children empathy scripturally:

  1. Lead by Example: Children learn empathy by observing and experiencing it themselves. Demonstrate empathy in your daily interactions with others, including kindness, compassion, and understanding. Be intentional about showing empathy towards your children as well.

  2. Teach the Golden Rule: Share and explain Jesus' commandment in Matthew 7:12, known as the Golden Rule: "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you." Help children understand the significance of treating others with kindness, respect, and empathy, just as they would like to be treated.

  3. Study and Discuss Bible Stories: The Bible is rich with stories that teach empathy. Choose age-appropriate stories that highlight acts of compassion and empathy, such as the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37) or Jesus' teachings on loving one's neighbor (Luke 10:27). Read these stories together and discuss the characters' empathy and the lessons learned.

  4. Emphasize Love and Kindness: Teach children about the two greatest commandments given by Jesus: to love God and to love others (Matthew 22:37-39). Help them understand that empathy is an expression of love and kindness towards others, including those who may be different from them.

  5. Encourage Perspective Taking: Help children develop the ability to see situations from another person's perspective. Discuss different points of view and ask questions like, "How do you think they might be feeling?" or "What would you do if you were in their shoes?" This exercise helps children understand and empathize with others' emotions and experiences.

  6. Practice Active Listening: Teach children the importance of listening attentively and empathetically. Encourage them to truly hear what others are saying, to validate their feelings, and to respond with kindness and understanding. Model active listening skills in your conversations with them and with others.

  7. Foster Acts of Kindness: Encourage children to actively seek opportunities to show empathy and kindness. Teach them to notice when someone is feeling sad, lonely, or in need and guide them in finding ways to help. Simple acts such as sharing, comforting, and being inclusive can make a significant difference.

  8. Pray for Compassion: Encourage children to pray for empathy and compassion towards others. Teach them to seek God's guidance in understanding and loving others unconditionally. Pray together, asking God to help them develop a heart filled with empathy and to be a blessing to those around them.

  9. Reflect on Jesus' Example: Share stories from the Gospels that demonstrate Jesus' empathy and compassion towards others, such as His healing of the sick, His interactions with the marginalized, and His forgiveness of sinners. Help children understand that Jesus is the ultimate example of empathy and encourage them to follow His teachings.

  10. Reinforce Empathy Through Service: Engage children in service opportunities that allow them to practice empathy firsthand. Serve together as a family at a local shelter, volunteer at community events, or participate in acts of kindness and generosity. These experiences will help children connect their empathy with tangible actions that make a positive impact.

Remember, teaching empathy is an ongoing process. Emphasize that empathy is a character trait that grows with practice, and encourage children to embrace opportunities to show empathy in their daily lives. By grounding their understanding of empathy in scriptural teachings, children can develop a deep sense of compassion and a heart that reflects the love of Christ.

Once Upon a time. . .

Once upon a time, there lived a young couple named Emily and Mark. They were overjoyed when they learned that they were expecting their first child. As the months passed, Emily's belly grew round, and their anticipation grew with each passing day.

Emily and Mark were deeply spiritual and had a strong faith in God. They believed that prayer was a powerful tool, so they decided to start praying for their unborn baby. Every night before they went to bed, they would kneel together, hold hands, and pray earnestly to God.

"Dear Heavenly Father," Mark would begin, "we thank you for the precious gift of life growing within Emily. Please watch over our baby and keep him safe and healthy."

Emily would continue, her voice filled with love and hope. "Lord, bless our child with a kind heart, a curious mind, and a strong spirit. May they grow to know and love You, and may Your guiding light always shine upon them."

This nightly ritual became a cherished part of their routine. Sometimes, Emily would place her hand gently on her growing belly as they prayed, feeling the tiny kicks and flutters that seemed to echo the presence of their unborn child.

As the day of their baby's arrival drew near, Emily and Mark found solace in their prayers, trusting in God's plan for their family. They prayed for a safe delivery, for strength and courage during labor, and for the health and well-being of both mother and child.

Finally, the long-awaited day arrived. Emily went into labor, and Mark stood by her side, offering words of encouragement and comfort. In the midst of the pain and intensity, they continued to pray silently, seeking God's guidance and protection.

Hours later, their prayers were answered as they welcomed their beautiful baby girl into the world. Tears of joy streamed down their faces as they marveled at the miracle of life before them.

With a sense of awe and gratitude, they whispered a prayer of thanksgiving for their precious daughter. "Thank you, Heavenly Father, for this precious gift. We entrust her into Your loving care and pray that You will guide her every step of the way."

As their daughter grew, Emily and Mark continued to pray for her, offering thanks for her milestones and seeking guidance during challenges. They taught her to pray as well, nurturing her own relationship with God.

Their faith and prayers became a cornerstone of their family life. The love and devotion they poured into their daughter, along with their unwavering trust in God, created a foundation of strength and hope that would guide her throughout her life.

And so, their prayers continued, for their baby had grown into a young woman who sought God's guidance and shared His love with others. The family knew that their faith and the power of prayer had played a significant role in shaping their daughter's journey.

In this tale of love, faith, and prayer, Emily and Mark discovered that turning to God in times of joy and uncertainty not only brought them closer to Him but also filled their lives with immeasurable blessings. And as their family grew and their prayers echoed through the generations, their bond with God remained unbreakable.

How to teach our children to pray scripturally

 

Teaching children how to pray scripturally is a wonderful way to instill spiritual values and connect them with their faith. Here are some steps and guidelines to help you teach your children how to pray scripturally:

  1. Set an Example: Children learn by observing their parents and caregivers. Demonstrate a consistent prayer life by praying regularly and openly. Let your children see you praying and engaging in personal devotion.

  2. Teach the Purpose of Prayer: Help your children understand that prayer is a way to communicate with God, express gratitude, seek guidance, and present their needs and concerns. Explain that prayer is a conversation with God and a way to build a relationship with Him.

  3. Read Scripture Together: Select age-appropriate Bible verses that relate to prayer, such as the Lord's Prayer (Matthew 6:9-13). Read and discuss these verses together, explaining their meaning and significance. This will help children understand the biblical foundation of prayer.

  4. Teach the ACTS Model: One effective method to guide children in prayer is to use the ACTS model: Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, and Supplication.

    • Adoration: Teach your children to start their prayers by praising and worshiping God. Encourage them to express their love and admiration for Him.
    • Confession: Help children understand the importance of confessing their sins and seeking God's forgiveness. Teach them to reflect on their actions and ask for forgiveness sincerely.
    • Thanksgiving: Guide your children to express gratitude to God for His blessings, both big and small. Encourage them to develop a thankful heart.
    • Supplication: Teach your children to present their requests and needs to God. Help them understand that it is appropriate to ask God for help, guidance, and protection.
  5. Encourage Personal Expression: While teaching a structure like the ACTS model, also emphasize that prayer can be a personal conversation with God. Encourage your children to speak to God in their own words, sharing their joys, concerns, and desires.

  6. Provide Prayer Prompts: Offer your children suggestions or prompts for their prayers. For example, you can suggest praying for family members, friends, teachers, or those in need. Help them broaden their prayer focus beyond personal needs.

  7. Make Prayer a Routine: Establish regular times for family prayer, such as before meals, bedtime, or morning devotion. Consistency will help children develop a habit of prayer and understand its significance in their daily lives.

  8. Emphasize Listening: Teach your children to listen for God's voice in their prayers. Encourage them to spend quiet moments after praying, allowing time for God to speak to their hearts through His Word or impressions.

  9. Answer Questions: Be open to your children's questions about prayer and provide thoughtful and age-appropriate answers. Help them understand that not all prayers are answered exactly as requested and that God's plans are sometimes different from ours.

  10. Foster a Personal Relationship: Ultimately, encourage your children to develop a personal relationship with God. Teach them that prayer is not just a ritual but a genuine connection with their loving Heavenly Father.

Remember, teaching children to pray scripturally is a gradual and ongoing process. Be patient, and allow them to grow in their understanding and practice of prayer at their own pace.